Jay,
I have 78 stock khorns with the standard ALK xover.
I think diaphrams either work or don't work, so I don't know I'd mess around with replacing them.
What I have found that made the most difference with my speakers:
1. Good seal in the corners. The split pipe wrap along the edges in the back of the cabinet made a big difference. The pipe wrap and staple gun took about 30 minutes. Pushed them into the corner as tight as I could get them.
2. Since I had the ALK xovers I bi-wired the speakers. Gave me more "air".YMMV
3. Accoustic treatment. I just added foam panels on the wall between the speakers and some on the ceiling.
My next upgrade will be to replace all the original speaker wire, but this is way down on my list.
You do have a killer system and I hope it works out for you.
Danny